Youtube and Livestream

Hello Everyone,

So as you guys may or may not already know I am the husband to the Majestic Wife. (You’re the best) We have long since talked of a few different ways we can do things together and one of the things we have discussed doing was a family Variety Youtube Channel as well as doing a Livestream for various things we could do together. Right now we have a few highlights as well as gameplay for one of my favorite games: League of Legends, I’ve been playing ranked since season 4. This year I’d like to do something different with not only season 10 but the 2020 year and track and talk about the games that I play to see if I can do better than before. Also what’s more fun than taking you guys on the adventure with me!

So if you’d like to join me on the adventure as well as enjoy other videos and fun things we post come follow us on youtube at: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm0NE_M-KlrzjPbPtXfVFDQ

Some of the videos we’ve done so far on the gaming side with plenty more to come:

And the Livestream here: http://twitch.tv/struddles

I will be streaming Saturday starting at 7:00 PM EST on 1/9/2020 so come join for some fun!

We are hoping to grow and have some fun while doing so as well as doing more with you our followers and community so please join us while we have fun doing things together!

New Year… new me??

Quick answer is definitely no.

I’m not changing myself, there isn’t anything wrong with me!! <—- that’s me pretending I have self confidence

I have things I could improve on, like washing, folding and putting away the laundry in a 2 day period, max.

What I’m calling my New Year’s Resolution is Live a Life Worth Blogging About.

I want to make sure that my family is living, really living. Not stuck in front of the TV or in the house. I want them to live.

I have goals though.

1. I want to work out at least 4 times a week.

2. I want to read at least one book a month.

3. I want to make sure that I am prioritizing my business. I have a business that I haven’t really written about here and I’ve been really lazy with it.

4. My house… I am a slob IRL. I don’t prioritize cleaning AT ALL. But since buying a house, the kids having friends coming over, me meeting moms that come over and having a mom that is a clean freak who hates coming to my house because it’s messy. I want to do better cleaning my house.

5. My marriage, that is pretty self evident. You should ALWAYS work on your relationship.

6. Eat less. I LOVE food. Love it. I want to keep losing weight and my problem is food.

So those are my goals, most of them, maybe all. I want to hopefully keep these going. I sure you know that most people give up their resolutions within 2 weeks.

What are your resolutions? Do you ever stick with them or not buy into it at all?

Merry Christmas!!

Christmas has come and gone now. The gifts have been unwrapped, toys played with, food eaten and kids are now asleep.

Well most of the house is asleep. I am up finishing my book

I am going up to bed, but I thought I would blog the day.

Our Christmas Eve went according to plan completely. Dinner, church, toast, opening one gift.

If you are a parent or an aunt, uncle, grandparent or anyone who helps with a child you know the rush and work that gets put in on Christmas Eve night after the kids are asleep. There is last minute wrapping, toys that need to be built, organizing of the presents and various other tasks. All for giving our kids the most magical Christmas ever!!

On Christmas morning the nerves and excitement are coursing through your veins hoping they love everything, even though you won’t get credit for everything you did *Santa*. But it is all worth it to see the smiles on their faces

This year was a hard one for me. I did not buy my older 2 kids (9 and 8) a single toy! Not a one.

I did not come to this decision lightly and I went back and forth multiple times. My kids don’t play with toys much anymore AND they have so many that they really didn’t NEED anymore. I decided to get them gifts that they would use more than once and things that would stimulate their minds.

I almost cried when I went to bed last night after setting up because we celebrate Christmas with my family. My brother has 3 boys and their piles were HUGE, piles of toys.

I knew my kids were going to see those piles and compare theirs, which were much smaller.

*this is our first Christmas with one income and in the past, even as a single mom I SPOILED my kids*

I tried to think positive and say that they would appreciate what they got.

It was as almost true. My son loved what he got, his big present was a build your own computer kit and monitor. He will be able to code his own Minecraft games.

My daughter did not appreciate much at first, she saw the size difference between piles and she was jealous. She smiled as she opened her gifts, but there wasn’t her normal joy. She didn’t get a “big” gift so to speak, she got roller skates and a radio/bluetooth speaker for listening to music.

I was hurt and disappointed to say the least, but there was nothing I could do. The parents open their gifts after the kids and then we eat breakfast.

After breakfast she came to me with her skates and asked if she could try them. I was so excited!

We went outside and practiced… this was her first time in skates

She did well, which is normal. She excels at anything physical.

After that her whole attitude changed.

I felt so much better.

And despite not recieving any toys, my children never once said, I’m bored!!

Some random pictures

Oh yeah… I got a DSLR camera!!

The After Thanksgiving Blog

Since it’s almost Christmas day I figured it was finally time to write what I did after Thanksgiving at the beach.

1. Bitty and Beaus, I always stop there. It’s delicious coffee and supporting a good cause

2. Sushi on a boat with super nova sauce, delicious and mouth burning at the same time!

3. Axes and Allies, if you haven’t thrown an axe on a date, then you haven’t lived yet!

It was AMAZING!!

4. I went for a jog/walk on the beach

5. We had dinner with my Nanny and my brothers family. Which I didn’t get any pictures of, because I’m a terrible person!!

On Sunday the big kids came back and we started the trek home, thus entering CHRISTMAS time!!

Mom, Where’s the Meatloaf?

If you know that line then you have seen Wedding Crashers. This blog has nothing to do with Wedding Crashers and everything to do with meatloaf.

If you are a mom and have a son like mine who hates anything green, then this is the blog for you!! I have tricked my “green hating” son into eating carrots, green beans and peas while eating his favorite food. Meatloaf.

I have tried so many different methods to make my son eat the food that he hates, which is mostly healthy stuff, but not always with him.

I tried

1. You will sit at this table until you eat all your food. Can’t watch your tv shows if your kid is sitting there, it’s basically a reward.

2. Screaming and yelling. That just doesn’t work people… ever

3. You’re grounded from… he just plays with something else

4. You’re grounded from everything! Follows you around and asks where babies come from, or makes new toys out of toilet paper rolls and other trash items

5. Catering to what he wants. It takes 45 minutes for him to poop because his body has no fiber

It is hard being a parent and the last thing any of us need is something to make it harder.

Enter my lots of Hidden Veggies Meatloaf

Ingredients, ground beef (can be chicken), bread crumbs, egg, bbq sauce and baby food… yep my secret ingredient is baby food.

I don’t measure anything by the way, I just “feel” what the recipe needs.

Blend all ingredients together

That’s a lot of bread crumbs… I felt too much

Cook at 450 for about 45 min to an hour

You have a happy kid who doesnt know he’s eating carrots, peas and spinach.

This idea is pretty versatile as well, you can use it for meatballs, in spaghetti sauce, if you coat them well, even chicken nuggets would work!

Apologies

I haven’t posted a blog in awhile, but I’ve been collecting content for plenty of them. Over the next few days I’m going to be mass posting to

A. Make up for lost time

2. Help calm me down.. because I am NOT okay this holiday season.

So to my subscribers I apologize for the mass of notifications you will get but I hope you enjoy reading my shenanigans, anecdotes and stories.

Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving to all and now it’s officially CHRISTMAS TIME

So its Thanksgiving today, well it was Thanksgiving today. Its 10pm and for me and my family, its over. I finally just got the baby down

Yes that really is the baby and myself in a really dark room. I wasn’t going to use the flash and risk waking him up!

He’s been difficult these last few weeks.

I don’t really take many pics on Thanksgiving because I’m usually recovering from working LONG overnights or getting ready to go to work because, retail.

*insert Hunger Games Whistle* recognition to those who work retail

This is my first year in 6 years where Thanksgiving was actually a holiday, so it was a new experience for me.

My big kids are always with their dad on Thanksgiving and normally this doesn’t bother me at all… I’m at work. But this year was different and it made me sad. I miss them, even in less than a day.

But the day continued as any holiday, big family get together, lots of food, good cheer, laughter and a huge amount of stress for the chick who suffers from social anxiety, lol.

Having kids is kind of a buffer for me. When people are around my big kids, they just want to compliment them and talk about them and that is FINE with me. Without them, the topic of what the baby has going on ends quickly. He has 2 teeth, taking steps and yes we vaccinate. End.

And then I’m left with a pit in my stomach and an awkward face that makes people think I’m sick, haha.

But I survived and now I have 3 days with my husband in my old stomping grounds so we are going to see what fun we can come up with!

Happy Thanksgiving to all and now we are officially in CHRISTMAS TIME!!!